How to Refer to a Deceased Employer?
How do I refer to my deceased employer ... a U.S. Senator ... on my resume?
-- Beth Acorn
Dear Ms. Acorn,
I am not sure why it's necessary to mention that your former employer is deceased on your resume. Seems odd, but, spans of the years of a life are included sometimes:
The Honorable John Tower, Senator of Texas (1925-1991) ...
Or term of service:
Senator John Tower of Texas (1961-1985) ...
Or in text when someone has just recently died:
The late John Tower, Senator of Texas...
Or span of life is included when the reader might know when an individual lived:
Ordo Virtutum, written by Hildegard of Bingen (1098-1179), is an early example of ...
But I think you should leave out that he is deceased: On your resume it only matters that you are still alive!
-- Robert Hickey
When to Refer to a Deceased Person as "The Late"?
Mr. Hickey:
In writing the history of our non-profit organization do we refer to the founders, now deceased, as “the late John Smith”….?
--- Darla Snyder
Ms. Snyder:
Usually you see "the late" preceding a name of someone who just died ... E.g., to clarify he or she would have participated, but died and someone else participated in their place. "John Smith, the bride's uncle, gave her away at the wedding in place of the her father the late Thomas Smith"
In a "history" you might want to use a "timeless" style that would be written to be accurate today and in 100 years when all of the founders will be "the late." So, I suggest you just refer to everyone by (first + last name).
Elsewhere in the document you could list founders and board members with -- (1948-1999) -or- (1955 - ) -- after their name if you want to include more about their lifespans.
-- Robert Hickey
How Do I List a Deceased Hostess on an Invitation?
Dear Mr. Hickey:
I have a quick question that I am hoping you might be able to answer. A baby shower was to hosted by two individuals. Regretfully, one of the individuals passed away about a week ago. The family asks that the deceased still be listed on the invitation. How would you incorporate her name....
Posthumously Caroline Giles
or
The Late Caroline Giles
Please advise?
--- Helen Carley
Dear Ms. Carley:
I don't think I've ever heard of a deceased person issuing an invitation! Sometimes events are dedicated to a deceased person ...
In memory of Caroline Giles
Helen Carley
requests the pleasure of you company
at a baby shower for
Hilda Smith
etc.
But that's still very odd since the event is already in honor of the expectant mother. Sometimes deceased persons are sometimes listed with (years of their life) after their names, like ....
Helen Carley
and Caroline Giles (1937-2009)
request the pleasure of your company
at a baby shower for
Hilda Smith
etc. But what I think you should do is to extend the invitation alone. THEN open the event with welcome toast that would be a loving remembrance ... such as ... "I cannot welcome you today without saying that as we gather to celebrate of the joyous start of a new life, we all celebrate a another life well lived -- that of Caroline Giles. Caroline I were to jointly host this event and nothing would have brought her more joy to than to see this wonderful gathering of friends and family ..... etc."
-- Robert Hickey
How to Refer to a Deceased Military Officer?
Sir, What is the correct written form of address for a retired US Army Colonel who is now deceased? The family hosts a golf tournament in his honor and for the benefit of the Wounded Warrior Project and Operation Homefront, and I have been tasked with developing an accompanying website and graphics materials. I would like to use the proper designation for him. (I have received several varying suggestions from various persons involved, all of whom are military or retired military who insist their version is correct though all versions are different to some degree.)Thank you kindly for your assistance.
-- James Costello
Dear Mr. Costello,
I can understand why you are getting mixed opinions ... there are plenty of established rules about addressing the living ... but when writing the name of the deceased you are referring to them in the third person ... not addressing them directly ... so those rules don't technically apply.
But that said .... Department of Defense (DOD) manuals suggest to to address a retired officer there are three acceptable formal forms for official correspondence:
Colonel Jamie Abbott, USA, Retired
COL Jamie Abbott, USA, Retired
Colonel Jamie Abbott, USA Ret.
COL Jamie Abbott, USA Ret.
1) comma after USA when "Retired" is spelled out
2) no comma after USA when when abbreviated "Ret.
3) "COL "is the service-specific abbreviation for an "Army Colonel" used in within the services .... Air Force and Marine Colonels having slightly different abbreviations ..... but these are generally not used by civilians, although they are free to do so.
However since this is a Golf Tournament and not an official military function ... I suggest you use the social form suggested by the DOD which excludes both the branch of service and the Active/Retired status
Colonel Jamie Abbott
If there is a bio in the program somewhere, you could state he served in the the United States Army from XXXX to XXXX .... etc
I know they have a copy of my book at the Wounded Warrior Project in Florida ... because Margie Kelly, a graduate of The Protocol School of Washington and Etiquette Consultant based in Georgia and Maine volunteers there gave them one.
-- Robert Hickey
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